Back to reality...
Sorry I haven't posted since pouring my heart out on here over that last week. I will update....
Since coming home things have been calm, happy & extremely peaceful. We have done alot of talking accompanied by alot of listening. We have stopped blaming and yelling. We have begun to take the steps we BOTH needed to begin falling back in love & remembering why & what it was that we loved so much about the other person.
We both realized that we do not want to be without the other and that we were both taking each other for granted, one party more than the other. Both of us realized what needs to be done individually to make this work as one.
Pat has been doing everything promised on his part. It has only been a week but everyone has to start somewhere & I am so happy. I have been doing what he felt he needed from me & he seems to be really happy too. Now if we could just get the puppy to stop having accidents we would be ecstatic.
We were able to sit down together & come out with a plan to help our financial situation, as well as a plan to help the other areas in our relationship that need mending. It feels so good to finally be working as a team rather than opposing forces. We have been doing things together as a family, allotting time every evening for time alone after Taylor goes to sleep, things that were always so simple, but when angry seemed like alot. We realize this now.
I don't know, all I can say is I am happy, genuinely happy with my life at the moment. It's not perfect, we still have our crap to deal with & get through, but at least I can sleep at night knowing that we are a "WE" , my husband & I, & that we may have hit a rough patch but I love him & he loves me & it is enough to make this work.
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